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Misunderstood Raghav

Some people are misunderstood because they hide. But some are misunderstood even when they’re right there sitting next to us, smiling, helping, showing up, just not in the way we expect them to. Raghav is that person in my group. And lately, I can’t keep quiet about how people are getting him all wrong. They think he’s too reserved, too distant, too hard to read. But you know what I see? A boy who feels more than he shows. A boy who cares more than he says. A boy who’s always aware but never loud about it. He’s the kind who remembers the smallest details  like which subject makes you anxious or how your voice slightly drops when you’re tired. But instead of saying “are you okay?” a hundred times, he’ll quietly adjust the fan to your side or send you a reel to make you smile. No drama. Just soft, simple efforts that don’t scream for attention. But people want loud. They want performance. And Raghav isn’t that. He’s slow-burn comfort, not fireworks. He’s eye contact in silence, not a...

A Girl Who Felt Everything

  A Girl who felt Everything. Some girls are known for their laughter, some for their ambition and some for how little they show. But me? I’ve always been the girl who felt everything. Emotions have never been background music in my life, they’re soundtrack. The loud highs, the aching lows, the moments of still silence when I’m just sitting with a feeling I can’t name. I used to think maybe I was too sensitive, too much. But over time, I’ve come to see that emotional depth is not a burden. It’s a language. And I’ve become fluent in it. I started getting more curious about why we respond emotionally the way we do. Why does one moment makes us cry while another makes us feel nothing? why does a compliment feel healing on some days and hollow on others? These questions led me to study of emotional patterns and recently, to a book by Ian Morgan. His work on the Enneagram has been a relevation . It maps not just behaviour but the deep-rooted emotional habits behind it. Reading it feels ...